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How Do We Tell the Children?: A Step-by-Step Guide for Helping Children Cope When Someone Dies, Third Edition [Hardcover]

By Dan Schaefer (Author) & Christine Lyons (Joint Author)
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Now in its third edition, this classic guide is expanded and updated to feature new material on dealing with trauma and devastation, addressing violence in schools, helping grandparents cope as caregivers, and an enlarged quick-reference "Crisis Section" with scripts, answers, and messages for young ones. Dr. Daniel Schaefer, working with child psychologists and trauma experts, and drawing on more than three decades of experience with families in crisis, has put together a practical guide for anyone who works or lives with children-parents, caregivers, counselors, or teachers-for dealing with children's inevitable questions about loss and change, life and death. He informs adults how to help young ones cope with the trauma of loss and offers time-tested, valuable advice on how to explain and console children in a language that they can understand. The book includes sections on what children think about death; explaining death to children; fear, confusion, and sadness; grief and healing; the funeral and saying good-bye; talking about AIDS; and talking to children with mental illness.

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Item Specifications...

Studio: Newmarket Press
Pages   208
Est. Packaging Dimensions:   Length: 8.56" Width: 5.84" Height: 0.83"
Weight:   0.81 lbs.
Binding  Hardcover
Release Date   Jan 28, 2002
Publisher   Newmarket Press
ISBN  1557044309  
ISBN13  9781557044303  

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More About Dan Schaefer & Christine Lyons

Register your artisan biography and upload your photo! Daniel Schaefer, Ph.D., is a member of the guest faculty of the College of Physicians and Surgeons, Columbia University, New York University, and Brooklyn College, among others. He lives in New York City.

Dan Schaefer currently resides in New York City, in the state of New York.

Dan Schaefer has published or released items in the following series...
  1. Newmarket Parenting Guide

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Product Categories

1Books > Subjects > Health, Mind & Body > Death & Grief > Grief & Bereavement
2Books > Subjects > Health, Mind & Body > Psychology & Counseling > Developmental Psychology
3Books > Subjects > Nonfiction > Social Sciences > General
4Books > Subjects > Parenting & Families > General

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How to Help Grieving Children  Sep 15, 2001
This is a clearly written book by a funeral director and psychologist. It provides helpful suggestions to parents and caregivers on how to inform children of death in many different situations. It respects the child's need to know what has happened in a way that is appropriate for his or her age. It discusses listening to children's thoughts and feelings and addressing common misperceptions. There is an excellent quick reference crisis section at the end of the book that clearly outlines various kinds of deaths, suggestions as to how to explain them to children in different age groups, and how to prepare them for what comes next. This is an excellent book to guide parents whose own grief may be interfering with their thinking about how to help their children. As a grief counselor at the Barr-Harris Children's Grief Center, I highly recommend it.
good advice, narrow perspective  Apr 28, 2000
This book has excellent information about what children at each stage of development are likely to think and feel about the death of someone close to them. However, the suggested ways of dealing with those feelings were somewhat limited, and allowed little flexibility for differing family circumstances. For example, the book is extremely critical of ways religious families may choose to explain death to children, claiming that many religiously based explanations may lead a child to believe the person may be coming back someday. The book also asserts that a closed casket is the ultimate form of denial of the death, and that even young children should attend funerals. Many recommendations, like the three mentioned above, might or might not be right for a family trying to cope with a death. Overall a good resource for understanding a child's possible perceptions, but not so good for determining how to address them.

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