Item description for How to Have That Difficult Conversation You've Been Avoiding: With Your Spouse, Adult Child, Boss, Coworker, Best Friend, Parent, or Someone You're Da by Henry Cloud & John Townsend...
Overview The bestselling authors of "Boundaries" explore some of the most common difficult situations between family members, friends, and even coworkers to show how healthy confrontation can improve relationships and stop bad behavior. Includes a discussion guide.
Publishers Description A practical handbook on positive confrontation, now available in softcover with a discussion guide Successful people confront well. They know that setting healthy boundaries improves relationships and can solve important problems. They have discovered that uncomfortable situations can be avoided or resolved through direct conversation. But most of us don t know how to have difficult conversations, and see confrontation as scary or adversarial. Authors Henry Cloud and John Townsend take the principles from their bestselling book, Boundaries, and apply them to a variety of the most common difficult situations and relationships in order to: * Show how healthy confrontation can improve relationships * Present the essentials of a good boundary-setting conversation * Provide tips on preparing for the conversation * Show how to tell people what you want, stop bad behavior, and deal with counterattack * Give actual examples of conversations to have with your spouse, your date, your kids, your coworker, your parents, and more "
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Est. Packaging Dimensions: Length: 1" Width: 5.5" Height: 8.25" Weight: 0.6 lbs.
Release Date Jan 1, 2006
Publisher Zondervan Publishing
ISBN 0310267145 ISBN13 9780310267140 UPC 025986267148
Availability 0 units.
More About Henry Cloud & John Townsend
Dr. Henry Cloud and Dr. John Townsend are popular speakers, psychologists, co-founders of Cloud-Townsend Clinic and Cloud-Townsend Resources, and co-hosts of the nationally broadcast New Life Live! radio program.They are also the authors of numerous award-winning and popular books, including God Will Make a Way and Boundaries, which has sold millions. Both hold doctorates in clinical psychology and maintain private practices in Southern California.
Henry Cloud currently resides in Los Angeles, in the state of California.
Henry Cloud has published or released items in the following series...
Reviews - What do customers think about How To Have That Difficult Conversation Youve Been?
Exactly What the Title Says! Mar 22, 2006
Apparently, at some point in the past, there was a book called, Boundaries Face to Face. Thankfully, Cloud and Townsend changed the title to something a bit more practical. Though I would never pick up `Boundaries Face to Face' I immediately picked up `How to Have That Difficult Conversation You've Been Avoiding With Your Spouse, Adult Child, Family, Boss, Coworker, Friend, Parent, or Someone You're Dating.'
Having a lot of opportunities to listen to people who are wondering how to have difficult conversations with others, this book will become a permanent, staple reference. It is simple, practical, and gives godly wisdom on the art of confrontation and communication.
Overall the book is great. I think a little more attention could be paid to dealing with people who refuse to stay on topic, but this is really a very minor point throughout the book. Overall, it is an excellent guideline for biblical confrontation with others and I would highly recommend it.
For a full review go to my blog in my screen name and click on the Readings category.
Confrontation 101 Mar 6, 2006
Does the mere word "confrontation" give you a stomach ache? If so, it may help to know that, according to Cloud and Townsend, the word literally means to come face to face with another person-- in other words, it is a positive relational term. This book gives practical, step-by-step advice on how to have difficult but vital conversations with people you are in relationship with. It outlines strategies for how to prepare, how to remain loving, and how to keep the conversation on track. Although it focuses on "big" conversations about matters that may have been brewing for a while, it is also useful for smaller, day-in day-out kinds of confrontations. Some people grow up in homes that encourage this kind of interaction, and some people grow up avoiding such matters. Cloud and Townsend give a biblical basis for operating in both grace and truth, just as Jesus came full of grace and truth.
This book is best understood in the context of the book Boundaries, by the same authors. However, it can also stand on its own.