Item description for Audiobook-Audio CD-Mom Factor by Henry Cloud & John Townsend...
Overview This encouraging audio doesn?t just help you understand areas in your life that need change and strengthening? It helps you apply your discoveries to attain new freedom and joy in living, and an increased ability to give and receive love.
Publishers Description From the very beginning, you relied on her for things no one else could give you. How she met those needs--or didn't meet them--affected you daily as a child. And still affects you profoundly as an adult. For every son or daughter who wonders if things should have been different...for every man or woman who wonders if they still couldn't be...here's a life-changing look at The Mom Factor. She shaped you in ways that would surprise you both. No one has influenced the person you are today like your mother. The way she handled your needs as a child has shaped your worldview, your relationships, your marriage, your career, your self-image--your life. How can you identify areas that need reshaping, make positive choices for personal change, and establish a balanced, mature relationship with Mom today? In The Mom Factor, Drs. Henry Cloud and John Townsend steer you down a path of discovery and growth beyond the effects of six common mothering styles: The Phantom Mom, The China-Doll Mom, The Controlling Mom, The Trophy Mom, The Still-the-Boss Mom, The American-Express MomCloud and Townsend show you how your mom affected you as a child and may still be affecting you today. You'll find a hopeful, realistic, and empowering approach to identifying your unmet mothering needs and filling them in healthy, life-changing ways through other people. This encouraging book doesn't just help you understand areas in your life that need change and strengthening--it helps you apply your discoveries to attain new freedom and joy in living, and an increased ability to give and receive love. The Mom Factor is a biblical, highly practical route to wholeness and growth, deeper and more satisfying bonds with your family, friends, and spouse--and a new, healthier way of relating to your mother today.Read by Dr. Henry Cloud and Dr. John Townsend.
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Format: Abridged, Audiobook
Running Time: 150.00 minutes
Est. Packaging Dimensions: Length: 0.75" Width: 5" Height: 6" Weight: 0.15 lbs.
Release Date Jun 1, 2007
Publisher Zondervan Publishing
ISBN 0310270774 ISBN13 9780310270775 UPC 025986270773
Availability 0 units.
More About Henry Cloud & John Townsend
Dr. Henry Cloud and Dr. John Townsend are popular speakers, psychologists, co-founders of Cloud-Townsend Clinic and Cloud-Townsend Resources, and co-hosts of the nationally broadcast New Life Live! radio program.They are also the authors of numerous award-winning and popular books, including God Will Make a Way and Boundaries, which has sold millions. Both hold doctorates in clinical psychology and maintain private practices in Southern California.
Henry Cloud currently resides in Los Angeles, in the state of California.
Henry Cloud has published or released items in the following series...
Reviews - What do customers think about Audiobook-Audio CD-Mom Factor?
Speedy shipping Good condition Dec 11, 2009
I received the item much sooner than anticipated and the condition was very good. Thank you!
some good ideas and insight May 5, 2008
I read this book primarily to study and implement what was written about "The Phantom Mom". The information was satisfactory and insightful, but I thought that perhaps more could be said about the solution phase or implementing the plans of action. The symptoms the authors gave were spot on. I grew up without a mother and the symptoms of having a phantom mom were so fitting that it looked like I was reading my life story. Basically, the only solution the authors suggest is to seek out friends who have what one has missed growing up without a mother. It's overly simplified because as was mentioned in the book people like me who've grown up without a mom have severe relational problems. What I think should have been emphasized about the phantom mom offspring is that we should practice eliciting what we want from others more (i.e. warmth and empathy, nonintrusiveness, mutual dependency, honesty).
Overall, it's a good book and if one has intentions on working hard to transform themselves then it can work but don't expect change to happen overnight nor should you just use this book as the only reference.
not so sure Apr 6, 2008
At first I was excited about this book. Now, I am not so sure. I think they are ignoring the cultural bias we have in america towards independence from family. Their work does not seem to be based on clinical research, but just experience in therapy. Many of the outcomes are the same.... anxiety, depression. There are many reasons for one to experience such difficulties, not just mom. The book contributes to the mom bashing we already hear about in therapy. It does call for some responsibility on the reader's part to change, but not enough. Aren't we supposed to honor our parents? They do not operate in a vacuum. We helped create our own existence. Wondering how biblical this book is really.... It really is just a pop psychology book with little substance to back it. It may be helpful for some self awareness, but like I said.... not so sure.
Its alright May 30, 2007
I think this book will be great for some people, but it really didn't help me all that much. The different mothers hardly applied to my situation with my own mother. The controlling chapter fit a little bit, but all it talked about was "learning to say no" and finding your identity. I was the one who rebelled, and I held onto my identity very well. The mothers in this book were much more loving than mine was. It would have been nice if they talked about mothers who were verbally, emotionally, and physically abusive. Where's the "Bi-Polar Mom" in this book?? From a real young age (around 7) I teamed up with God determined to turn out just fine. I even grew up setting my own boundries & parented myself (ex: I wouldn't allow myself to see PG13 movies until I was 13... my mom however could have cared less). I read this in attempt to understand why my mother does the things she does. I've tried to reconcile with my mother, but she refuses to have a relationship with me at all. My mother has resented me since childhood, and even now shes in an imaginary war with me. I'll probably give the book to one of my friends or sell it to half-price books.
Understand your mom, and yourself as a mom! Mar 7, 2007
I picked up this book to help me deal with my elderly mother. I had an abusive upbringing and need to come to terms with it. This book was awesome! It doesn't blame the mother at all, but gives help to the adult child on how to compensate for what mom didn't have to give. It was also invaluable to me to see mistakes I am making with my own children, and how to correct them. I will say, the book does get pretty deep into psychology...some parts are a difficult read.